Robert Baden-Powell and Olave Soames were not childhood sweethearts. They met completely at random on board the Arcadian and fell in love as it crossed the Atlantic.
They married in October 1912 at St. Peter’s, Parkstone, Poole, Dorset. St. Peter’s sister church is St. Mary’s on Brownsea Island, where Baden-Powell held his first Boy Scout camp in 1907. (Follow the Brownsea Island link and the map will show you the area.)
“Gray Rigg Villa”
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Crichel House
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The fact that the Soames family did not move there until one year after Baden-Powell led the celebrated Brownsea camp does not lessen my sense of astonishment. If it does yours, however, how about this: I mentioned that their meeting aboard the Arcadian was random, and it was…except that Baden-Powell thought he recognized her walk.
Two years earlier they had lived near to each other in London, and he had seen Olave (though he didn’t know it was she) pass by with her dog. At that point in his life he happened to have been studying the connection between people’s character and their manner of walking. The way she carried herself was so memorable–and his powers of observation so acute–that he even recalled the breed of her dog.
Still not enough? They were born 32 years apart–but on the exact same day–22 February. And that’s why that date is considered Founder’s Day for Boy Scouts around the globe and was chosen as Thinking Day for Girl Scouts and Girl Guides.
Sir Robert Baden-Powell and Lady Olave Baden-Powell |
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Third photo from: http://en.scoutwiki.org/Robert_Baden-Powell
This is a precious story. I wonder what her stride said about her character? Now I'm going to be thinking about this all day…
In his own way, Sir Robert Baden-Powell was an extraordinary man. I've enjoyed learning about him.
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Wow. I can imagine the tabloid gossip and twitter if any celebrity aged 55 married a young lady of 23 in this day and age. It must have caused even greater comment and speculation a century ago. However their partnership appears to have succeeded and Lady Olave went on to be fully committed to the Guide and Scout movement for the rest of her long life. One snippet I just picked up about her… In 1968 the Boy Scouts of America (BSA) had given Olave a credit card to defray her travel costs. When she stopped travelling, the BSA asked her to use the card for 'keeping in touch'. This included paying for the over 2000 Christmas cards she sent to those personally known to her. Wonderful!
Thanks, Clive! That's a great Olave Baden-Powell story about the credit card and two thousand of her closest friends! Thanks for your comment–
Gray Rigg is a house on Crichel Mount Road and was indeed the address of the Soames family. it is the one in your first photo. My sister lives there now (for the past 20 years and we have just returned from a visitto her where we were house-sitting!
Thank you, Alison, for reading my blog and for writing in with this fascinating news. Is there a great deal of local interest in the Soames family, or in Lady Baden-Powell? Does the neighborhood still remember?
Hello Stacy,
A bit of help with Grayrigg. It is a large late victorian villa in Crichel Mount Road Parkstone, Poole, Dorset. It was built in 1890 by a developer on what he called the Flag Hill Estate, in a then modern style, and my wife’s greatgrandparents were the first occupants. We have the original visitors book which dates from March 1891, and also a photo of the house from that same period. (If you would like to look at it on the 1891 census, search for Thomas D B Rawins and wife Maria, in Parkstone Dorset, entry No89 “Flag hill estate Grayrigg”) Maria named the house after the town in Cumbria (then Westmorland) where her father was born. They were there until 1897. Harold and Katherine Soames, Olave’s parents leased the house from 1908 to 1918 when Harold met an untimely death. The house was eventually renamed Crichel Place, and fell into disrepair during the war years, being auctioned off in September 1950. The current owners of twenty years have lovingly restored it to its original design and given it back the name Grayrigg. Despite Alison Hardings close relationship with the house, she is wrong to say your first photo is of it. (Your own reference footnote correctly says that one is in Grange-over-Sands Cumbria.) Critchel House, your other photo is a mansion 8miles north of Wimborne Minster in the Dorset countryside. There is no connection, except that the land at Parkstone was part of the vaste estates of Critchel House, hence the borrowed road name, and house name. (The next road over, for example, is Allington Road, Lord Allington being one of the former owners of these same estates.) Let me know if you would like more info.! Robert
Robert–A thousand thanks for this useful information, and for the clarification.
Stacy